Re: my husband doesn Posted by pivotingfool 11/4/2009 1:42:00 PM
Sooner or later, you will leave your husband.
Try to get him to take Square Dance Lessons. Almost all men, (particulary engineers and math majors), seem to excell at Square Dancing. After a couple of years, you can get him into Round Dancing. (Coreographed Ballroom.)
Having a Caller, or a Cuer give you the Cues relieves the man from having to think too much.
You have to decide if your marrage is more important than your dancing. Your husband must decide if you are worth taking lessons for.
Square Dancing is the middle road.
Ballroom is just too personal. It is very easy to fall in love when you are dancing. Having to feel guilty whenever a guy makes you feel good is difficult.
As I said, your marrage is on shakey ground. Both of you should give that a lot of thought.