Was just wondering how exactly it works. How would you know that someone was trying to contact you? Would you get sent an email? Because when I go to the discussion forums, there's a tab on the right with my name and a list like: My Messages and what not, but they're not links. I'd really appreciate it if you could get back to me on this? I'm really trying to get a dance partner for the summer, or just someone to go out dancing with! Thanks!