Hi bee
A good technique book is fine, but i assume you're talking about taking notes at a class, where the coach is pointing out your weaknesses and correting them...etc. The technique book doesn't cover everything.
I use beats in the bar. If there's a head movement, or a particular thing i should be aware of on a particular beat, i note it down. Also if the grouping of steps has a name, i write that down too.
Before anybody writes comments about "we don't dance on the beat" and "this will make your dancing mechanical" just let me quickly point out that this is while i'm LEARNING. Once i have the hang of it, i use it as part of my dancing without worrying too much about beats.
The most important thing is that it's impossible to remember everything in an hour or two hour lesson, and so make a note of it in any way that's comfortable for you
If you find a technique book that's up to date with the modern approach to competitive ballroom dancing, please let us know