yes, I've heard it a dozen times...lead and follow, posture, foot position common! My guess is, those who work or own these very expensive "by-weekly lesson" that turn into 3 or 4 a week or "oh' your a natural" schools, have lost something along the way. The problem is, they are tought to tap into the vulnerable people, then extract as many lessons as the person can afford before sacrificing there own quality of life and by doing that they are exploiting these otherwise inocent people wih luering them into a fatacy world of something like ballroom dancing. In the end, wht these franchises creae, is no longer the sport of ballroom dancing but the game of it.