I'm an amateur guy and have been dancing for 7 years, in my early fifties and don't have any hope of going to Blackpool with my late start in ballroom. I have done 10 years of adult ballet, but lots of these skills don't transfer. I take great care of myself and plan to dance competitively for another 15 or 20 years.
I dance at the silver and gold level and do Am. Smooth, Q. Step, V. Waltz Std., Am. Rhythm, and Int. Latin. Plus I am competing in WCS, Hustle, and Salsa in 3 weeks. My next dance to learn is the Two Step. Know that I am way to diversified with my dancing, but I really enjoy all the dances and there is of carry over from one dance to another. I am probably better at Am. Smooth and getting better at Int. Latin with my Pro partner. I would love to get better at Std. Waltz, Foxtrot, and Tango--but there is just so much time and money.
I'm probably a good all around dancer and can use all of the above social dancing, but I have not done as well in competitions due to the lack of specialization and a steady partner. If I would specialize and try to be competitive--I would just dance Am. Smooth and maybe a show dance.
We are lucky in our area since we have good teachers in all of the above dances. Plus, I have a dream partner to dance with now.
I having loads of fun social dancing with a variety of partners, but do feel a void by not being more competitive and living up to my potential by specializing more in fewer dances. Since I have only had this great partner for about a year I am still thinking and evaluating on what to focus on. A well trained, steady and stable partner has lots to do with how well and far you can develop your dance skills. Plus, you are better off if you are not romantically involved with a dance partner--been there done that.