I doubt this posting is real. Nat is supposed to have been with the studio for 3 years and the guy has been there for just 6 months. He 'dances with all my group of friends this has started to make them feel uncomfortable'. It sounded too weird for a woman not be able to handle this despite she has friends at the studio and they had bad experiences too. And the guy made a complain and the woman got kicked out. It sounds like a made up story to me.

I now agree with Dan. This might very well have been a fake posting all along. Too hard to believe all the nuances of the story, especially the poster's last "angry comeback" post.

what a skeezeball! how does he do that in front of his wife? there's nothing wrong with a little flirting but he's crossing the line.

If his wife is observing this behavior, she's either too timid to object or she's turned on by it.

You should not leave your studio.

I'd advise yelling something like "Get away from me, you pervert!" Perhaps a public embarrassment would back him off.

Nat. Your first post was July/2007. Sami answered you on sept/13/2007. You answered Sami 6 months later on March/16/2008. It is incredible that you let this situation continue for eight months?

I am a bit puzzle O.K if what you say istrue the guy is weir,but Sorry it does not make sense(to me that is).
What was your reaction after he kissed you,still dancing with him?"WHY?
No matter how good dancer he is ,you dont like him but what is going on?
1)He walks you to you car
2)tells you he is been divorce before
3)he kiss you.
"HEY" IF I DONT LIKE A MAN I DO NOT ALLOWED HIM TO DO THAT OR WASTE MY TIME LESSENING TO HIS LIFE HISTORY.
You are leading this man to whatever he is doing my opinion you are enjoy every bit of it.
Please stop taking the people here for a ride.
NO ,NO NO, IS GOT THE SAME MEANING IN ANY LANGUAGE
perhaps this is something you have not learn to say

Nat. There are lots of chatrooms,pick another one to play with. >

I say that you tell him that he is married and that he needs to back off. good luck. you shouldn't have to stop doing something you love just because there is someone giving you a hard time Best Wishes Jake

I don't think Nat is playing with anyone. The situation is embarrassing to say the least. Quite obviously Nat has tried to downplay the attention she was receiving from him by subtle hints which were quite obviously ignored. Not sure why some of you think she is playing anyone. It seems she doesn't have anyone to turn to and I would guess is very shy or it some sort of politics at the studio - i would guess the latter. It appears this is a very big learning curve for you Nat don't trust anyone and never let your guard down you obviously thought you had control of the situation but something backfired. Usually in this society not necessarily dancing the girl is always at fault and its never the mans fault everyone will assume the girl has done something or wants attention. If you stay at the studio you will notice doors will slam in your face but other doors will be open stick with those who leave the door open for you, keep the texts he sends you and make it clear to the studio you do not want to have ant association with him, chin up his wife will most definately support her husband regardless if he has cheated on her with others you already can expect this from her because he has made moves right under her nose he has got away with with it you are just a pawn he has most definatley singled you out because he suspected you were weak or you don't have a large circle of friends at the studio who will support you I would focus on building your profile at the studio it will be hard and he will evenually be found out. Remember what goes around comes around - karma works unexpectedly it won't be overnight it could be in 1 years time people will eventually see him for who he is. Ignore the negative posts on the site. This is a discussion and you are welcome to post your thoughts anytime. You have support here

This is exactly why some women don't report rape cases ( on a larger scale), all the nagitive comments and accusing her of strecthing the truth. Always HER fault, yet the man is always blameless. And we wonder why the men who rape women walk free.....

You should NOT leave the studio, if you can help it. NEVER, EVER, let a man stop you from going or doing what you love.
Stand up to him, in whatever way you think is best ( informing your instuctor, telling him to his face, your friends etc .
)
It's annoying how sometimes, if you simply simile at a the male-sex they interprate that as an invitation to your pants.

I agree with Tara, ignore the negative comments. He has no right to make you feel this way. Stand up for yourself and fight it. You deserve it!!!