I also was wondering if you are male or female, but it doesn't matter. Proper dance shoes are THE vital piece of equipment for this sport/art. I was teaching a couple a few months ago, and the man had thick rubber-soled shoes you might wear to work on casual day. He couldn't figure out why he couldn't glide or move along the floor properly on a Fox Trot. I asked him if he would still play golf with wooden woods and irons with small faces, when the new equipment today provides much larger Titanium heads and irons that help amateurs strike the ball much better. It is the same, in my opinion, with dance shoes. Why would you go into a lesson or a game (a dance) with equipment that was going to hinder your chances to do well? Decent shoes are well worth it. The better the shoe, the longer it will last, too.