Why is it that after 2 months you think you're even a beginner dancer? It takes a long time to simply get your body to move.
All right - in social or in swing, it takes very little before you become one of the better dancers, but jeez, think about it!! it takes more than 2 months to do it.
Remember the old saw: In social dance, an intermediate dancer is there after a few months - in dancesport, an intermediate dancer is there in a few YEARS.
Fact is, after only a few months, probably all you are doing is the classic 'walking to music' patterning. With no technique and only dancing around the beginner/social dancers, you're at the very start.
Dance is a journey not a destination. You'll be surprised at how far you get in a few more months (and look back at how 'good' you thought you were at THIS point) if you stick to it, take real lessons, and actually practice.
Another wise comment that I think is very wise: an hour of bad dancing reinforces your muscle memory as much as an hour of good dancing. Therefore, try to aviod the social for practice - do practicing with someone who is interested in proper form etc. You'll have plenty of time to 'undo' that at the next social - but perhaps some of the 'good' movement will stick!