My husband and I have been competiting for a good ten years now...about 4 comps a year.
Sometimes, we do quite well, and other times we do not score the best. There is a mix at each competition, level of other dancers, a mistake right when the judge was looking at us...ect...
Our goal is always at each competition to do our personal best, and to improve upon our performance from the last comp. We do not concentrate so much on our placement. If we did that we would of probably thrown in the towel long ago. True, nothing beats the feeling of taking first place, but if it does not happen, you need the mind set that it is ok, and just to continue on. The feeling is equally as great to walk off the floor and know you danced to your maximum ability, even if it does not bring a favorable score.