Sunshine, yes, this is quite probably a cultural difference. I am from the Mediterranian area - we tend to be more volitile and posessive.

Martin, I wish you the best of luck and the ability to live in the same area with your girlfriend. As it is - I do not see how not agreeing with her dancing with someone else will help you - she is constantly interacting with other people in any case - and you are far away. Perhaps better not to strain your relationship by not agreeing. Maybe she can find a married partner?

What do you mean exactly by your last sentences? we're deeply in love and so in harmony until the partner maatter took place.

Martin, sorry for the misunderstanding. I meant - perhaps she can find a married dancing partner...

I dont think she's from the type to have a married partner,I know her well, maybe she wont find one at all from her new class, could be all of them got partners.
Your mind goes anywhere it wants; can you sleep if you know she's now at a dance party with her partner who picked her up from her house by his car to go dancing, puting his arm on her back while she's wearing backless dress and he'll bring her back at dawn?
Maybe I'm exagerating much, but this is how I feel when someone can touch more I do.
She said that she'll feel the same if it was the opposit and we'll have a discussion about when the partner shows up.
But I really appreciate if someone faced the same condition whenever he/she was away or with her/him and tell me about.
Thanks people.

Martin. This is a difficult one to comment on.There are many partnerships in dancing that are just that. It really depends on how you look at it. If this were a stage company and your friend was an actor it probably would not worry you. Nor would it if it was a tennis mixed doubles partnership. But if I was also a tennis player my attitude might be different. Looks as if it is your decision on how you feel. Good luck.

Well, finding a partner for her will be quit easy and hard. Easy cause she's very beautiful that many guys wihtout partners wish to dance with her and could be hard cause maybe she wont find the right partner.
But when dancing, I guess it's not just dancing to dance with a partner, you have to be smooth, dance with all your senses, live the dance especially if you like dancing much and you have a good leader.
With a dance partner she'll spend time with him more than she'll spend with me and most of that time will be " between his arms".
I apreciate if someone face such situation in case was away or living with her/him (if it's the opposit).

I guess it's your jealousy contolling you. If you trust your love you should not react like that.
Give her the freedom to have one, could be a test for your realtion, how she'll act toward him when you see her in your next vacation.

Hey.. I don't think you should worry about your girlfriend. She wants a partner to dance with, nothing else. She probably loves dancing and she needs a partner to dance. The guy she will be dancing with won't take your place. She loves you.. don't worry about that!

Thanks Kim, this is what I've been thinking about. I trust deeply our love. I guess it was my jealousy controlling me especially am away from her.

Totally and completely dont let her. if you love her so. learn to dance and be her partner....

I dunno about the money in Dancing Mmm....
I must go into that matter but anyway
When she totally dumbs you than you'll see..
And what will it be....A girls freedom....