Almen,
I wasn't speaking from the man's point of view alone--I was talking about both the gent and lady--and how the approach to the hand hold should be.
There are certain immutable rules that provide both function and aesthetics to movement--REGARDLESS of one's stature in relation to a partner. That is to say, by conforming to certain structural rules, one could reasonably create a well-functioning and aesthetically pleasing silhouette.
The SIN, in my opinion, is blindly copying an established form (such as a specific way of holding a partner's hand--lady OR gent) without really understanding WHY it must be done this or that way.
And by extension, how it would affect one's posture, silhouette, and movement.
Z