To continue this a bit further. Many ladies arrive on step two to soon and too far down the LOD. Then the man will use his greater strength to get where he wants to be. If you look at the charts on both man and lady it is clearly shown by the chart that the lady takes a shallower step than here partner.I often get the lady to try the man's step whilst I the ladies and do what that person has been doing, and ask how does that feel, not very good.Well what are you going to do about it, we both can't stand on the same spot can we.