Today's dancing isn't dancing. It's a lot of unnecessary theatrics.
The dancing of "yore" was supposed to be fun, aesthetic, and semi-athletic, but not to the extremes seen today. A couple could "go on all night long" and not get winded- and shouldn't have had to- it IS dancing, not a triathlon, remember?
In the good old days, you wouldn't DARE dance with a "lady" that looked like the ones winning world-class comps. In fact, your mother and your best friend's mom might whisper behind their hands about her if she walked past on the street.
If you saw someone dancing the way "The Pros" do on a regular floor, you'd think they were OD'ing on crack.
There's something very unsexy about orange people.
But then, this is why I'm "just" a social dancer. I'll keep pouring my money into (figuratively) your industry though, so you can continue to flourish, and ignore the "ordinary" people buying shoes and skirts and DVDs, and make them flatout SCARED to walk through a studio door- a fear not present in the 50's. It's nice to email a studio "We're from out of town- do you know of any social dance venues welcoming to newcomers?" ... and they write back "Sorry, this is for ADVANCED (their caps, not mine) students... what level are you? You can come watch our social dance, though..." Well screw that.
I wonder where "Ballroom Dancing is SO gay" came from (you don't hear it as often any more, but there in the recent future to semi-present among certain demographics)- there's a period in between then and now that it became that way. I wonder if it's BECAUSE of what's only seen on TV and in ads.
This is only my opinion and is not intended to change that of anyone else's- and I doubt it will, Lol. I think there's room for modern improvement but I also think it's important to retain what made ballroom Ballroom, without getting caught up in all the faddish hype.
I believe in being correct and learning and executing the correct steps "the right way" (but make your minds up on it, eh?), but if being correct means looking like some of these competitors, I'll just stick with all that I can do without making it "un-fun". That's one of the luxuries of being "social only". You can tell people where to stick it if they make subtle "you don't know what you're doing and IIIII DO of COURSE" snipes like on this thread.