I've learned a lot about leading almost by accident. Although there are plenty of female partners at dances, there never seems to be enough for classes or for practice. Myself and a few other guys will take turns leading so we at least get a little practice. It seems like learning to follow and dealing with poor leads makes you much more aware of the mistakes and where improvment is needed. I now learn both the lead and follow every time I learn a new pattern. Give it a try, it may not make your lead perfect, but you will see improvment quickly.

Gary