"Anonymous. So you are an unqualified person trying to teach something you can't do yourself."

What exactly do you think I'm doing here other than defending it???

The problem for you and Don is that this issue is in the level of development which goes beyond what you will find fixed in any widely available source.

It is the kind of thing which you will only learn about from a source of authority if you get in the habit of periodically consulting with the club of retired champions whoc constitute the best teachers on the planet.

You may get hints of it from me, or from your daily teacher, or from some comment on a video - but if you want to know for sure, you must seek out the world's best teachers and ask questions. That's something that you can't do of a book or a video.