i agree with the greek gentleman. i've been dancing and taking classes for years. i've seen all kinds of interactions. there are many reasons why this guy is pressuring you (yes, it's pressure) and you have only your choice to fall back on. i agree that accepting a dance with another gentleman is ok - it sends a subtle message but sometimes people are less than bright and don't get the message. i feel the final act of having the owner/manager of the studio intercede conveys firmly your position and his/her support of your position is so important. you have to be comfortable to dance and secure to express who you are when dancing without the intimidation. good luck.