My wife teaches fitness classes called "Shape and Tone." Those are probably the key words. It is good to tone your muscles and make sure your body is in good shape. That means a nice mix of cardio and strength exercising. It does not mean bulking up with free weights and getting muscle-bound. Dancers are strong, but not disproportionately. I am a boxing fan, as another poster suggests, and I do believe dancers could take a cue from a boxer's training regimen. It is mostly about flexibility, endurance and quick feet and hands. It is not about massive arms and chests. That's for football linemen, not athletes (and dancers) who have to move quickly and precisely, even though in this day and age, the best football linemen are also learning that quick moves with their feet are just as important as bull-like strength.
I am middle-aged soft now, but feel I am in pretty decent shape. I am not "tough-guy" strong with big arm muscles, but I have good endurance and very strong legs and knees for my age. So I now rely heavily on stretching exercises such as yoga and some resistance strength exercises on a machine called Total Gym. That, and a lot of dance practice, I hope will keep me clicking for some time.