Man, too bad we live on opposite ends of the continent. If we lived in the same area:

a) I would gladly ask you

b) I would absolutley make sure you knew what a pleasure it was to spend time on the dance floor with you.

A glowing smile goes a long way. When people see you enjoying yourself, it really draws them to you. I'll never forget this one woman who I dance with sometimes saying to me when I first asked her, "I've watched you dance Phil, you look like you are just having the best time out there!" I love whn people notice things like that.

Hoo Hooooo Hoo Hoooooooo

I also have to add:

4)A partner that not only follows your leads, but injects her own distinct personality into the mix as well. As an example, There's a woman I have danced swing with many times, who'se style reminds me so much of a playful cat (I wonder if she is part cat )and it's just so much fun dancing with her!

Hoo Hooooo Hoo Hoooooooo

1. When I dance with a guy, and he makes me feel like he enjoys dancing with me. He ends the dance with a huge grin and a big "thank you!"

2. When I get asked. I hardly ever get asked!

3. when I dance with someone and he leads me through all kinds of stuff I've never done before and I actually follow him.

4. when I get compliments!