Originally posted by Follower:
I read an article by Michael Harvey on the topic of "The Comfort Zone".
Where can we find this article?
I think highly of a leader that first gets comfortable with the follower's "following" and the music. As Michael suggests, a tip for the leader is to look at the follower's smile, if she is comfortable with your lead, she will express a comfort smile. Does anybody agree with me ?
I usually start with basic steps when dancing with someone that I know, and I always start with basic steps with people that I don't know. I feel fine with doing one or two basic social steps for a whole song, if that is what I think the follower can handle. Otherwise I ramp up as we dance!
The whole purpose of a leader is to make the follower comfortable and to make them look good to observers. Nobody looks good when they don't have any idea what they are doing. Make the follower look and feel good! Make her smile!