Does any taller male dancer lower their legs for a shorter partner? I have been told this doesn't work and will really throw off you movement together.
What I try to do is keep a light contact and sometimes no contact and attempt to keep our movement about the same. I am 7 inches taller than my partner and have long legs and arms, but she can keep up with me on long strides, but we do have a tendency to loose contact. With long arms it is an effort to keep a good frame with a shorter partner since she will pull down on your shoulders at times. With long arms my full frame takes up lots of space, especially during social dancing and I often have to drop my frame to avoid whacking other dancers. This creates another problem of resetting up with our position together over again. Floorcraft can play havoc with length of steps, holding a good frame, and keeping a close contact position. It's like we need about 6 variations of the above to keep dancing and moving along.