<<"Had you been even the slightest bit musical in the beginning, you would have danced yourself years ago."
Well, that's harsh. I wish I had started many years before but life got in the way.">>
I agree. Musically, I sang rather than danced for many many years. I danced as a child, but our community was all farming and dance wasn't something there if you were not a swan in elementary school.
I came to dance because I needed an activity that was good exercise that I would love passionately so that I would leave my desk and my work and go DO it.
My hubby promised to dance and has been too busy to follow through. He will eventually but he will never put into it what I wish he would.
It actually had little to do with children, we don't have any together and are finally attempting to do so. I will dance even if pregnant. I cannot imagine how having a child will prevent my expression of song and of dance.
So I agree, what polished said was rather harsh. Not everyone lives in a community large enough to have a ballroom instructor. Ours didn't. Where we live now does. Where I commute does. However, within the next two years we will be back in a community more than two hundred miles/four hours and one mountain pass away from a community large enough for a decent dance instructor.
So I am trying to do as much as I can NOW, while I have instructors, and I collect instruction DVD's for future reference and practice.