Boston: Tch,Tch,Tch, nowhere did I "sneer" at your request for an opinion. I simply gave mine. Your first post mentioned nothing about being "smelly""scruffy" and "Ill mannered". I would not condone someone being all of those either. By the way, some ladies need to address their odors,dress and manners as well if they "Desire a successful liason on the dance floor with a man". I still advocate that whatever makes a person comfortable at a studio dance or otherwise is okay with me and the rest of my cadre. By the way, let's leave the inference to age alone as we both have no idea how old the other is nor should we care. We are talking opinions here. Owen