Laura, I've been reading your posts for a while, and got motivated to try again to make my own gown. I've been sewing for YEARS, and could never quite get that ballgown to work the way I wanted it to. Thanks so much for your information.
Additionally, I broke down and ordered the pattern and manual from dancesportballgowns.com for reference and ideas. I HIGHLY recommend this material, particularly the guide portion. This provides a lot of the REAL scoop on how to fit the bodysuit to the gown, and how to go about decorating the gown. Lots of tips on rhinestones, laces, etc, etc, etc. Finally, they provide sources for fabrics, trims, stones, etc. WELL worth the price!