It took me a bit of time to work up the courage to answer your message. I've been figgetting around here making comments in other threads and I realized that if I didn't answer I'd be discrimating even though we've never met. Can you imagine! Also I was very affraid that I may not say the right thing!)

I think guys on the whole will consider looks. Personally I'm a dance fanatic so will dance with any lady (favouring dance characteristics).

There's more to life than that though.

Keep doing what you need to do to be happy.

I read this cool book called "Who Moved My Cheese". Worth reading as is shows how to seek new things within your environment to be happy. (Even if you're currently satisfied). I've recommended this book to the best of my friends to learn general problem solving ideas.

I'd like to share the benefit of reading up on Social Network Theory. I recently have and it has change my outlook very much. It's rather technical and mathematical (mostly beyond me) but it deals with many profound concepts. I've employed many new ideas in my life as a result and have had amazing returns.

I bet that if you worked hard at dancing you could awe people since they may be naive about what it takes to be a good dancer and show a kind of beauty that the average person can't manage.