Very funny supaman. I'm sure she saw me as 'easy' in the beginning but 'jerk' in the end.

You are right hennepin... most men shouldn't get suckered in this show of emotion. It's deadly and dangerous! But I don't mean to make sweeping generalizations about men and women in general ... but basically it's all about the individual. Remmeber that.

and to answer asila's question.. I wasn't actually referring to female dance instructors and male students. It's also male instructors and female students too. I was only trying to stick to the point on my experiences even though I shouldn't be generalizing about it. That was my mistake.

I never gotten into what would happen between the female student and male instructor as though they would pose different problems than the male student and female instructor. I mean... would a male instructor cry in front of everyone with his female student because she was quitting? Can a man cry that hard? I'm sure some can but well... he would definitely look like an idiot. He'll look like an easy-going coward and crying dog so desperate for his female student's attention.

But let's picture the female instructor crying... Everyone is going to start feeling sorry for her... so who's to blame... the male student... duh! Like something he did was totally wrong for him to make her cry. That is what I felt like. I mean whoa.... lady... now look at my forehead... it says, "JERK"... whatever happened to
"GENTLEMEN" or "NICE GUY" who didn't mean to make her cry because he only wanted to quit?