Thanks to Google and your website, I am able that what I am experiencing is not uncommon: I have a beginner's crush. When I joined that studio, I was desullusioned about another studio and wanted to have a change and of course I wished that I would find a very charming uplifting instructor and I did and of course I signed another contract... but I should have been more careful about what could be happening to me. I got seriously hooked and poisened... I do not regret it, if I did not want it to happen to me I think the instructor would not have reacted to it. The only thing that I regret is that some instructors are out there to fish for revenue. And in deed they would react and send you a nice flirting look eye movement or give in to make you confortable, but in this relationship nobody wins. I feel that I could have learnt a lot more if I would not have been in interferring with his instruction. However, every time I was drawn to him, the guy would undiretly sting me as it would feel that I was not concentrating on the dancing. This hurts. As well, if he was skilled could he not see it and tell me directly in a gentle way? Or if he was that experienced could he not have avoided and foster naturel human appropriate behaviour? I want to dance and I want to feel confident that the instructor I am dancing with is there to nourish my gentle, caring, well behaved personality. Is it too much to ask?