I have a crush on this wacky swing dancer,he isn't wacky but has wacky dance moves that seem for a advanced girl. I know he doesn't dance with me because I'm not at his level. I want to beable to dancw with him and not embarrass me or him. Is there a way? Also there is this new girl in are swing dance club and I think she likes him and is pulling the moves and she dances w/ the boy I like better than me...it's like he does completcated moves w/ me but easier moves on this girl. How can I get him to dance w/ me without me saying "will yu dance with me"? OR how I make the illusion I'm a good swing dancer? ALL ADVICE IS NEEDED! Plus I'm in high school.

hey phantom!
i think it is perfectly fine to ask him to dance with you. your story is very familiar. this is something i had to learn the hard way: he wont know you like him until you do something about it. guys in high school are TOTALLY clueless..so basically you have to present your feelings right in front of them on a silver platter. quite unfortunate too. but about the dancing...just ask him to dance! or if you feel uncomfortable dancing with him ask someone else. it shouldnt really matter how good of a dancer you are...so just go out there and dance the way YOU want to and at the level YOU are best at. just show him how good of a dancer you are at what you CAN do and that demonstrates how much you absolutely love dancing! good luck! let me know how it goes!

Practice, practice and more practice. I understand that you are in high school and this is important to you. Does he take lessons? If so, then you should consider taking some private lessons for quick advancement. When you advance your dancing skills, it is an investment in yourself that will improve your social skills, no matter what setting you are in. If you decide to take the lessons, do it for yourself. Happy Dancing!

People who refuse to dance with others because they're too low level for them are called dance snobs around here. There should be plenty of other people who will dance with you regardless of your level. A good leader should be able to adapt to his partner's level. If you're a beginner and he's advanced, he should have enough knowledge and experience to stick to moves that you know and are able to follow. Pulling out every move he knows won't be fun for either of you and it won't look good. So there's really no good reason you can't dance with him if you want to.

You can just ask him to dance if you want to dance with him. There's nothing wrong with women asking men to dance. If you don't want to do that though, just keep dancing with other people. If you look good with other people, the guy you'd like to dance with may notice and ask you to dance. You can also warn him, in either case, that you're a beginner and don't know lots of fancy moves. If you practice and take lessons, you'll improve and your level will go up. So just keep dancing and having fun. :)

I agree! For him, it shouldn't be a problem to dance with a beginner... If he makes it a problem; forget about him.. loser!

lol...now I am his friend and we are able to dance alot better...it took a few months but now I am at his level and no more of a beginer

Just chill, look hot, he won't be alble to resist a hottie with attitude.
P.S. not a bad attitude.

thanx. I'll try to look "hott' nut what I think you mean is to be confidence? LOL. Its a lot better being around my guy friend now...