Hey Estrella! I know how you feel, I'm working on flexibility too. There are a couple things that you can do. One is a stretch where you lie on your stomach (prop your head in your hands)and back up towards a wall, so that you kind of "push" youself into the splits. Keep going a little farther each day and soon you'll be able to do the splits. Just remember to breathe while doing this, the more air you get to your muscles the better it will work out. Also there is a machine called i-flex. You can order ir at www.discountdance.com in the gifts and accesories section. It really helps with flexibility, which in turn helps with the splits. I hope this helped and good luck!