Hi Rose ~ You sound alot like me. I'm 34 and never tried partner dancing because my husband truly has no interest, he would try it for me, but I don't want that. I've been raising my 3 children for the last ten years, and it's about time I did something for me and I'm interested in someday competing amatuer, also (pipe dream). I'm new to these boards too. I've been reading posts for about a month now, so I've learned alot and I found a local studio through this website. I will be starting classes in March and I have hopes of finding a partner through the studio, but that remains to be seen!
Lots of luck~
Kellee