I have been taking dance for about nine years and I think I am pretty good. The only problem is my dance teacher does not seem to notice me much and I never get solo pieces. I am tierd of sitting in the dark and not doing any thing exicting. How can I get her to notice me?

What type of studio/dance? It almost sounds like you are talking about ballet/modern/jazz rather than ballroom, in which case the answer may be different.

How much individual attention does the teacher put into your development as a dancer? Do you take only group lessons, or private lessons as well? (ballroom question - I get the sense performance dance is mostly group instruction)

I'd be more worried about your opportunities to develop than your opportunities to perform prominently. If it's just performance opportunities that you are not getting, then perhaps the teacher doesn't feel you are ready. But if your development is being neglected, then you need to find a new teacher or at least establish a new relationship with the teacher, as she is never going to think you are ready to perform if she isn't helping you develop.

INSIST that you do your solo. After 9 years, you should be doing that-and more.

If this teacher doesn't acknowledge your wants-get a new teacher!! Don't waste your good time and money on a cut rate teacher

Dear Hmm- If he has been her student for NINE YEARS and is still not ready to do a simple solo, then it's high time he changes instructors because she must be awful.

Dear Anon- Wow. A man who is eager to do a solo? That's great! It means that you have some confidence in your dancing, which is half the battle for any leader. Does your studio go to competitions? That may sound daunting, but don't panic. They split it up by dance category, age category AND skill level. So you could dance with other students at approximately your own level.

You are absolutely right in wanting to challenge yourself with a "solo" or with a competition (or with both . We find that our students advance much quicker with a deadline and a goal. Additionally, most of our students find their dancing to be more rewarding when they have a focus...there's a certain amount of fulfillment from knowing that you set a goal, practiced, and conquered (so to speak If you are uncertain about your instructor's desire to do a solo with you, you might try asking her if you could do a solo number with another student...this has many benefits including that practice time with another student is FREE while you have to pay your instructor to practice

Your other option: change teachers. At least ask about taking some "exchange lessons" with other instructors...it might alert her that she is brushing you off, or you might find that she's not your ideal teacher after all. Consider studios that actively attend competitions!

Best of luck! M

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Ask questions. Say something like, I'd like to do a solo."