Eyfoi. It, or walking stick can only be laid across the mans arms at the crease above the elbows whilst in ballroom position.
The centre of the broom handle will be touching the chest. This helps to maintain a constant position of the arms in relation to the rest of the body. Without and not knowing, it is possible on a Reverse Turn for instance, that the body gets in front of the elbow. Instead of a stick or a frame it is possible for the man to crasps his tie with the right arm at a right angle and keeps it taught and dances. It makes sure that the whole of the side turns in one peice. Keep dancing