I'm looking for some advice and comments on movement in promenade position (slow waltz or foxtrot especially).
I'm aware that the man and woman should keep their bodies turned well towards each other to avoid a "4 hips" appearance but i'm told that my movement is sometimes ungainly, especially if i take a long stride.
As example - slow waltz coming out into a weave from promenade position - i would step onto my left foot (lady on right) for beat 3 of the "previous" bar then look for a longish stride on beat 1, taking this stride with my right leg (partner left) with plenty of contra-body action to keep our bodies turned well towards each other.
Some more experienced dancers watching us practise commented that i was taking too long a step (it wasn't THAT long, i didn't think) and pointed out that the lady's left hip stays behind the man's right hip, and it's not possible to take a long stide that way.
When i shortened my stride, they said we looked better, but i don't want to curtail my movements unless it's absolutely necessary. We're both about 6ft tall, and have about the same leg length. And to be honest, i enjoy dancing with long flowing movements (when i can).
Does anyone have any suggestions or comments? We're intermediate level dancers dancing international syllabus.